Oh, Mama. They've ALL lost their sensitivity chip. I'm so sorry. frown

I'm gonna be honest, and this might be an unpopular thing to say, but ...

I haven't met ONE person who's had the rug pulled out from under them so suddenly - out of seemingly NOWHERE - when an affair wasn't involved.

Getting irrefutable proof of it is another story.

I just found your sitch, I'm caught up and I'm here with you, Mama. Big hugs!


M: 40 H: 44
Married 14 years
S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M
2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart
Piecing: April 2014