W and I spent 45 mins together with psychiatrist/MC/therapist. I held my ground and said I put my kids needs first and they need to see their dad 50% of the time ...shared custody is all I would agree to ..W continued with her excuses why one day a week and every other weekend is what she wants for me ...After the 45 mins ...therapist said he was done with me and that I could go. I went back to work and he talked to my W for the balance of the 1 hr appt. I did not raise the issue because we all went to visit with my family for Good Friday and Saturday and then spent Easter with my wife's family and since she said nothing about the custody neither did I. Then last night before bed she says she's good with 50 50 ...and goes on to say that she wants out of the house we are in and maybe we could buy a new place with a separate entrance/"unit" for her but she stills wants to move forward with the divorce ...wtf? ...I'm so confused ..
Me: 47 Her: 45 M 18 years T 22 years S-6 D-9 Separate rooms 1/5/14 Wife filed for divorce 2/5/14