said "no thx" in text to my coffee offer today. Said that I was busy with a client... didn't want to make him feel bad. He arrived at work with coffee for himself and a fresh pack of cookies. I was reading, when he arrived...then intermittently worked on our vehicles, then back to reading...I didn't even sit with him
...its a start.
I really see that I need to have boundaries... a minimum as to what I require. My bottom line is ... an exclusive, committed relationship where we address our issues.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
