He expects you to be right where he left you 24/7. Continue moving forward and doing what you've been doing. Little Boy Blue needs to learn that life doesn't sit still while he's playing in the parade.
Keep the focus on you and your family.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.