Be strong, Praying! Where is he going? Where does a jobless student plan on moving to? Is he going to help with the kids or is he just going to dump all his responsibility to his family? I am only a few short weeks from my W leaving and I know it's hard but it may be for the best. Until he knows what he is leaving behind its all just fantasy to him. Reality may be the kick in the butt he needs. He has been cake eating and will get very hungry without it. Remember, you are not alone and we here will be praying for you!