Yes, W did seem, and still seems somewhat "done". But she's not getting validation from the C, and she seems to like and respect him, and not hesitate to schedule future sessions. I take this as a good sign, and hope that she will "buy in" the more we continue to go. Are you saying that done is done, and there's no hope? I often think this, but I'm ever the optimist.
Yes, I continue to work on myself and try to accept that I can't control the R, what will happen will happen, but that's really hard. D would not be good for her or the kids. The best, and even easiest, thing would be to work to restore the M/R. Why does it have to be so hard? Just do it! Arrrgh.
