Wife wants a divorce

[VFL]

She just asked me again to sign the papers. But everyone else i talk to says not to sign until I'm ready. I told her that and she said "so i need to change it to contested". I ask her why such a hurry and she says she's grieved and let go. She's over this, why don't i do what the therapist said (let her go). I tell her we've never really tried working on our relationship at the same time(its always been one of us admitting faults and changing what we were doing. She tells me i have until Wednesday to sign. then she just quit talking and got on her ipad.