Well it has been about 2 weeks since W retained a L. She hasn't said anything about it and I have been avoiding getting the mail because I saw an invoice in the mailbox from the L and I don't want her to know I know about the L. Or should I have a talk with her seeing as I feel she used money that she doesn't have to retain the L?

I could talk with her without any problem at all I just think W should be the one to bring it up. After all W is doing things she feels she needs to do and that is her right but it is a switch from where she wanted to work things out first if possible before getting L involved because of the cost.

If I brought up the subject I feel it would look like I am nervous or scared to her which I believe W would revel in.

I can hold up a strong front no doubt in my mind I just wonder if she is avoiding me so I don't have a chance to bring it up to her if I desired to.

Me 47/W 34
T 16 M 13
No kids
BD 6/2013
W asked that I move out 6/2013
I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013
separate beds not much talking
Served D Complaint 5/2014
W moved out 9/27/2014