Puffy,

I'm sorry you find yourself here. WAS always say it's too little too late, so that is why she is doubting your changes. In regards to the MC, eh, in theory it sounds like a good thing. However, when the WAS is done, they frequently use this opportunity as a chance to seek validation from an outsider that "yes, you should leave the marriage."

You will find that everyone here wants to save their M. However, you need to make sure the changes are for you and that you can stick with them whether you are with your W or not. Keep focusing on you and making changes that you want to make.



3 kids
BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. )
Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style
D final 9-9-14
"Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer