LA, are you saying distance myself because of the morning we spent together or because I was going to open communication a little more?
Originally Posted By: labug
By taking an action and expecting an outcome involving another person we're back to our old controlling selves, trying to manipulate an outcome.
I get eager after we have our talks and the small steps that are happening. I need to settle back down. Today I have a little unsettled feeling after yesterday. I think the fact that it was a holiday made the emotions sting a little more.
I did send her a text message yesterday thanking her for doing the egg hunt because the kids really liked it. We then had a little message session when I asked how the kids were doing, and if they had a good evening. It was pretty pleasant exchange.
LA, in your opinion is pressuring her and not distancing myself?
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