The thing that H kept mentioning over and over was the fact that my attorney wants us to "ante up" every 4 months so that any money he has made over his base amount can be acknowledged and rectified. H wants to do this once a year. S
Then why not offer a compromise of every 6 months? Although I have to say, usually child support is set and then can be revisited later if his income goes up - are you really expecting his income to go up by that much? If his income goes DOWN, you will suffer that much sooner. Can't support be based on his income and bonuses from last year, and then re-adjusted yearly? Every four months does not sound "standard".
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My mom thinks maybe he is dragging this out not only to "win" but because he also realizes that when this is over there is nothing holding him back to belonging to OW
So why not use some reverse psychology to get him to move? "H, we really don't have much to disagree over here, other people have told me they think you are dragging this out because you're still in love with me and reluctant to let go?" He'll probably settle as fast as possible, just to "prove" that's not it! LOL
