"Thanks I have to leave some of the other boards they are attacking my wife as a slut and calling me all sorts of terrible names because of the way I with her. Even the mcounslers say to stay in touch love her but be a little distant.
Why do those other boards tell me to throw her out tear her with no respect"
You're really wondering why? It's because you called her that. Not in so much words, but when you came on here you painted her like a 'slut' and even the title of your thread - "Wife left for tour guide lover" implies that you think she is a sl*t.
You have no one else to blame but yourself.
I'm assuming MA is the Marriage Advocates site but what is TAM?
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.