What I was saying was that I know that the kids love the acreage and for that reason it's brutal to realize I'm going to need to sell.
There are a few reasons. One is that it's not looking like it will be likely that the court will order the kids to come back to my province.
The second is that the longer I delay in starting to live 50/50 the harder it will be to get.
Financially it would be a huge stretch to maintain on my own. If my kids were for sure coming back to my province I would find a way to keep it.
If I do buy a place over in her province I would look for an acreage just outside of town. The prices of acreages there are quite a bit cheaper if I went with a place that was older but still in good shape. That way the kids would still get the country life that they love.
Me-40,W-37 D7, D5, S3 Separated Oct 3/2013 T 11 YRS M 7 YRS