I'm so sorry your baby girl is struggling with this. The WAS seems to always think that after a year or two all the ramifications of what they have done are over. It's NEVER over. It just manifests in different ways in our kids (and ourselves).
She is a lucky girl to have you in her corner kat!
T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43 bomb12/4/07 PA5/07 S12/26/07 D final 11/17/08 Back together with no defined R 05/2010 confused....to say the least!!!