This link is referenced several times in threads I have read regarding detachment: http://www.livestrong.com/article/14712-developing-detachment/

It sounds like this weekend was fantastic. Don't worry about the initial conversation with W. It didn't cause permanent damage. You recognized the behavior and changed it on the fly. This is as important as totally eliminating the behavior.

me: 45 W:45
M 20 years
T 22 years
S14, S13, S11, D9
BD 2/28/14
D papers served 3/3/14
I moved out 3/15/14
MC start 4/2/14
I moved in 6/2/14
D suit withdrawn 6/30/14