I don't know WHY H insists on dragging this out when there is NOTHING to drag out. We have child support, maintenance, and the credit card. Period. This is NOT worth going to trial over. There is NOTHING to financially mediate.

He drags this stuff out for the drama factor and then turns it on me that I am dragging it out. But once this is over, there is nothing more between H and I. Nothing except child exchanges. My mom thinks maybe he is dragging this out not only to "win" but because he also realizes that when this is over there is nothing holding him back to belonging to OW. And maybe something inside doesn't want that to happen? I don't know if that is true, but H made his bed, now he can lie in it.

The thing that H kept mentioning over and over was the fact that my attorney wants us to "ante up" every 4 months so that any money he has made over his base amount can be acknowledged and rectified. H wants to do this once a year. Surely so he can have more time to hide the money if needed. My attorney said my kids should not be deprived of that money for any longer than necessary. And I agree.

H also made a mention that the social worker told him specifically that she saw no reason whatsoever why we shouldn't have 50/50 placement of the kids. I don't believe him. Number one, the social worker would NEVER tell him that. She never made any mention of it to me. Number two, H lies. All the time. Number three, if that is true, then why did he make an agreement with me to give me the kids 8/6? I don't trust him or believe any words that come out of that miserable mouth. He just annoys me. I wish he would just leave me alone and get this done.

I know it is all to wear me down. Like a two year old who wants a new toy. And H knows I am out of money. That's another part of it. But if I am out of money, he can't be far behind.

WH

AT BD: WH 41, J 43; Bomb 2/5/2012
Two kids, one dog
D Final 6/18/14
J marries OW 1/24/15
"No matter where you go, there you are"