I am pretty much there myself. I pretty much told him on Saturday too that I am prepared to do the work in a committed relationship, but ONLY with someone who is prepared to do it with me. Two feet in. This is what I need, but am not chasing you or begging you to do this. If this is what you want too, tell me. He couldn't.
So, I am very interested in Pearl's story. Learning how to be firm and stand for getting what I want in a relationship. If he can't do this with me...then I roll along. I just need him to know that I am not being baited anymore. This is my authentic genuine feeling of where I am now too.
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This morning I contacted him about work related stuff. He replied about work and sandwiched in his reply from last night "ok, to sunday evening text", then back to work comments.
Whatever that means....
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)
