Her older sister did that this past fall and didn't get much of a response. So she is a little leary. I told her she needed to try and reach out. When ex dropped them off he mentioned some-to-do that happened between her and s18( he came over for Easter as they celebrated a day early). He said she wouldn't even let him give her a hug but after a couple of hours everything was fine. Sounds like he didn't even go and try to talk to her.

He is losing out for sure. He isn't taking the time to make those bonds. So we had a bit of a talk, a big long hug and a good cry(her, not me) and she felt a bit better. She has always held on to her daddy and he just keeps letting her down.

kat

Me-53(and learning!)
S24, S21, D18, D17
Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory