maybe I need to leave this place.. calendar seemed like such a good idea.. maybe the Germanness is seeping into my pores. I agree sounds controlling.. I am a controller thought I was recovering!!! I will work on my email. might run it by you It won't be a talk.. He can not make a decision with out thinking and consulting his diaries.. so I do need to give him that space..
Out to work in the garden.. my tulips are great this year.. I will mull it over and get back.. How are you doing with mean .. avoiding it ignoring it???