Loua - I'd state the problem, as you see it, but no part of the solution, in any way, and then ask for his help. Tell him you don't want to control or manage him, but that he is also responsible for the house, so what do you do? Tell him, if necessary, that selling and moving was related to HIS job (not to blame, just as a fact) and so could he please help with this...
If there is some part of morality or fairness that might work, perhaps that could be thrown in. Perhaps you could post how you think this talk would go first, before having it.
No calendar or organization - too German (sorry...) and controlling, imo.
Luke
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.
