I got to see the monster today and he was at work. YEAH! So here is the story. I have been working hard on GAL and detaching. A mutual friend of ours invited us over for Easter, H could not go because he was at work. He knew where we would be and about the time. I had my phone on silence and did not pay attention to it because I was having so much fun. Normally lately when I with H, I am on phone as distraction, as he is on phone to OW texting. So he called his normal time and I did not answer, and he sent a few texts. So I sent a text saying the girls were outside having fun. He then called our friends house asking about me. Then we left late and he called while we were traveling and I do not answer phone while driving. Before we got home, he called our friend looking for us. He said I want to know where my kids are each time. It is like he does not want me to GAL, and he got more and more paranoid tonight because I was not talking to him. Then he got home told me he was annoyed. I told him my phone was on silence and it would have been rude to answer the phone during Easter dinner. Then he brought up that I got a text during our dinner the other night. I told him it does not matter it is in the past and we cannot change tonight and I am done with it. Then he went and got his booze and left with OW. Now I get a text that he is blowing off steam and will be home later. Whatever. He has not sent me a text of what he was doing after work for a couple weeks now. What gives? This is crazier behavior that I have seen before. It is like he wants complete control over me.
I am so confused and pissed. How dare he expect me to be at his beck and call. That is 2 nights this week that he has freaked out. Maybe he thinks I am running away, because he has been such an arse lately.
So those that have been through this or those looking from outside what in the world is going on? What does this mean? UGH...HELP?
