She moved home but still in love with OM!

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Ok so here goes. Her OM is really starting to get on her case.

Me I am being the husband I should have been. Sharing chores, not getting upset. Actually going in the basement and meditating when I know she's on the telephone with OM.

Only thing is she likes to tell me about places she's been to and he comes into the conversation. Unlike others believe she is not purposely doing it to hurt me it just happens, if I ask her to stop she does.

She has asked me to go to her cousins wedding with her. Mmher sister messed up and told family members what was happening, actually it think it's because deep down inside she wants us to stay together.

WW has referred to me four times today as her husband.

It's very awkward. I overheard her tell her sister if I stay with my husband I just don't want to hurt OM he such a sweet guy and he's been through so much, plus do you know how much money he spent on me the last ten weeks.

WTF, he's a sweet guy? You don't want to hurt him!? How much money he's spent..

Is it a $600k house a Lexus Truck, all the furniture in the house .......
Raising two boys sending one to private college...etc etc etc..

Where does this train of thought come from....

Anyway I have using 180 in terms of me. Not talking a lot, not getting upset, being a loving but distant neighbor.

I just want to see if this works for the next six weeks. Mid she still ends up going to Israel to see him In June the. When she leaves I can go dark and then stay that way when she's home....of that does not work after a few months I will go Plan B.