I am sorry that H is still playing games with you. Don't believe what he said that his lawyer said, it is most likely a lie. In due time your H will get what he has reaped. I just hope when it happens to my H - I am there to see it. I am not the only one he has lied to - he has lied to some pretty heavy guns people. I am not sure how long he can get away with that.

Don't worry if you have a bad moment or day. Allow yourself it, it is part of healing. The reality is if your m had not gone like this you still would feel like crap today because you are sick. Think of it that way. Don't let your ex own your day.

Good luck with H the Maroon. Post often. We are all here for you!