Well I just forced myself to not do something that I really wanted to; I did not invite my W to Easter dinner. I really wanted to, but I didn't.
The W came over and we hid eggs for the kids while they showered. Played with them for a little, had lunch out and then went to Wal-Mart so she could buy some stuff.
The whole time I thought about how nice it would be to have her at Easter, but I kept with my game plan and did not invite. My reasoning being that she needs to miss me, amongst other things.
When at Wal-Mart she did mention that I should bring my mom some flowers, "women like flowers." Ah nice dig. But I thought here was a perfect time to show that I value her and her feelings, opinions, etc and I grabbed a bouquet of tulips.
She left with the kids, I'm a little sad, but off to dinner with my family.
Hope everyone's Easter is as happy as possible.
M:34 XW:34 Together: 10y Living: 9y Married: 7y Son:6 Son:4 Separated: 12/28/13 Piecing: 5/2/14 Separated 2nd: 10/16/14 W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14 papers served: 1/27/15 D final: 3/6/15
