More points to ponder...

[wishing, hoping]

Thanks everyone.

Yes, I am feeling sorry for myself today. Knee deep in emotion. I didn't go to church because I feel horrible and I can't expose anyone in a nursing home to whatever bug I have.

So the kid's came by this morning for about an hour. So they foundtheir baskets right away and I wanted to enjoy the kid's but H wanted to talk. Again.

So H asked me how I thought things went Friday. I deferred to ask him how he thought things went. He said he is tired if dealing with my attorney and will do this "used car salesman" stuff no more. I asked H what that meant. He said he is demanding we go to financial mediation. I said that was pointless and I wasn't paying for it. He said the courts would order it. He said my attorney was wasting my money. He showed me paperwork that the courts have quashed the subpoena and he also said the contempt charges were a waste of time. He said if I do not agree to financial mediation he would push this to trial.

H also showed me a email correspondence between him and his ex-attorney where she inferred that my attorney must think that I am an absolute idiot and am incapable of having a conversation with H. Apparently this attorney is the one who told H that he could take the full amount of maintenance and divide it by 3 which my attorney said was ridiculous.

So my optimism has turned sour. I don't even know what to think. Now H's ex-attorney is encouraging him on. I don't know what to do!!

I emailed my attorney. Of course H always pulls this crap on the weekend. It's all drama making but I'm sick of it.

So I get the kid's back on Friday. The kid's were sad to go back to their dad's. Of course OW was there with kid's in tow. Big happy family.

WH