Sorry you are part of the club no one wants to join, and everyone wants to leave. My h has not left, but is threatening divorce. We are basically roommates. He is in spare room. There are no displays of affection. I am trying to be his friend BC eventually ow will start to nag ( he does not admit to ow they are just friends..ugh). So being your w friend is good. In the meantime detach from her r with on. Work in gal without her. Set some nee boundaries. Boundaries is where I am lacking. I am such a wimp, and he does what he wants. Ugh!! Be strong like you were when she lived elsewhere. You can do it.
Thanks I have to leave some of the other boards they are attacking my wife as a slut and calling me all sorts of terrible names because of the way I with her. Even the mcounslers say to stay in touch love her but be a little distant.
Why do those other boards tell me to throw her out tear her with no respect
I did awful things from what I see now. I did not see it as abuse but I made her not want to now that I fear I loosing her now that we are like friends I see how wrong I was how absolutely sweet and wonderful she is . I such am a$$hole
W 53 H 51, S 16, S 21 33 years M 28 DD 3 Feb 11, 2014 S21 and His Fiancée move in with us 8/14 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...965#Post2477965
