The thing is that he turns his anger on and off. He rarely yells at me in front of kids. It probably is BC we rarely are around kids together at same time due to working opposite shifts. He can be so negative towards me, then answer his phone and be nice. I am the one that gets all the meanness.
I know I need to set boundaries, but not sure where to start. I have been concentrating on gal and detaching. He does not even admit to ow, they are just friends. He is starting to put her ahead of kids. It is so sad BC he was such a great dad. Ugh!; grrrr! rutrow!;!
Did anyone have to set boundaries while spouse was still in house? If so, where did you start?
