I realized yesterday after spending some time with my wife that I twice had given the I will always be here for you, and noticed in her eyes those tears of he still loves me, but also the you see I have total control over him still look on her face.
It made me realize that I will never ever say that again ever. She also believes that putting up with my extended family for so long she deserves part of my inheritance even if we are divorced!
This is all due very last bit of it for her believing if we divorce and she marries her OM and it fails I will rescue her...AND WHOSE FAULT IS THAT? It's all my fault!
Don't let yourself fall into that trap...I don't think it's helped me any and it won't help you any.
W 53 H 51, S 16, S 21 33 years M 28 DD 3 Feb 11, 2014 S21 and His Fiancée move in with us 8/14 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...965#Post2477965
