OK, confirmed today, W is dumping OM. She doesn't like the way he is controlling their R. She realizes that in 5 years, he'll be doing the same thing (i.e. not D'ing his W, but just having A on the side.) She can't keep doing this for 9 years (until S9 is 18?) And OM is a distraction preventing her from succeeding in her career. And she wants to make sure she doesn't fall back into bad habits in the next few weeks. And she was almost over him last time. (that was 5 weeks of NC then, so I gotta sit tight.)
My Lord, she's almost lucid.
She is still done with Zew. "Zew is too serious." "Zew wants everything his way." "Zew blames me for everything." "Zew is a narcissist." "Zew is a sociopath." She needs someone who can be more fun.
It's true - Zew should be a little more fun. Time to seriously get some fun going with the kids.
And I held back some money this month from her because life insurance was due, and the oil truck came the other day!!!! And she blamed me for not budgeting well. And she threatened that I would have to buy food then. I told her that what I gave her more than covered the monthly food bill. And then I find out she bought a new pair of shoes today...
So I guess my status is that I now have a WAW that in not in an A. And for some reason that feels better.
