As starsky359 says many times, once you set a boundary stick to that boundary, you havent stick to the boundary and now it seems like she is cake eating....
You had found yourself but you decided to take a few steps back, why did you let her move to the house while she wasn't fully committed to the M? Its important that you tell the C how you feel about this despite of her reaction, the most important person in your life its you now and she has to change that pattern, otherways your changes will be seeing by her as fake, you understand?
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
