new here. is DB even worth it?

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Yep I wonder the same girls, I wonder if by me being so AWSOME (lol!) and so understanding, caring etc won't that just confirm to him that things are better this way & that we're better off apart?!

I know these changes are for ME anyway but it is something that's always in the back of my mind... Any input on this from our experienced DB'ers here?