Sounds like you have some potential dates coming up! Good for you, it'll be good practice if nothing else.
I know how the not knowing what's going on portion of this stinks! But stay strong, and just keep living your life like you would as if he's not coming back! Sounds like you're in a good frame of mind.
H: 29 WAXW: 30
Bomb Drop- 9/9/13 Negotiated Settlement- 5/9/14 D Final- 5/21/14 XW has breakdown in attorney lobby- 5/30/14