Crimson......still just checkin' in.

[ye21]

Ha Crimson listen to those words 25 told you, myself I feel very identified with them... Being married to a person who never communicated what upset her untill now that she is asking for D, its basically a need of perfection, they are not looking for you to be perfect...they want themselves to be perfect and time will show them they are not perfect, maybe at that point it will be late for them to reconcile, who knows.

I spent the last 4 months telling myself why why why? Why she could not tell me how much those things affected her? Why she couldnt seat down and simply talk?
Mindreading my friend, a perfectionist expect that everybody reads their mind and bro I have to tell you no e of us are perfect, some people choose that path and there is nothing we can do about it....is your life going to be miserable because of that? Nop , I can almost guarantee you it will be better, you will learn from this experience, thats for sure.
We all have flaws, could you improve them if nobody points at them? Probably not, so thats God's gift for you.

You are living, yes it hurts but its part of the process, I do things in a different way now and I thank God not my W for showing me that because I am growing up and I will experience things impossible to experience without this...