Wow- 25 is right on the money. I've been reading so many of her responses over the last few months, and they are always just…on target. In-depth, insightful, helpful, and full of food for thought. And in the end, after all is highlighted and dissected, the focus remains: on you. I wish you could see yourself in the same lens that many of us do. I read so much of your sitch, and almost can imagine it going down that way for me as it has lent itself in that direction so far. YOU will be better off in the long run, although the short run is very painful. Quite simply, like it or not, it may not be with your XW; but man, she is broken and grasping for straws. What she has either a). won't last; or b). won't make her happy. And especially if c). you start dating and begin to build something with someone else. And I don't suggest that as a tactic, but as Cinderella sang: "You don't know watcha got….till it's gone…"
