nyk -- yes you can bake anything you want yourself! Heck, I'd bake you something. I'm good at that too, and there's only me here to eat whatever I bake! Interestingly enough, my H has said several times he really misses my cooking. Keeps saying he hasn't had a good meal in a long time...
Yes, I am still watching too carefully what I say and how I say it. I think I just have to stop caring altogether because, really, it seems as if nothing I've said for the past 10 months has made ANY difference at all. So it just doesn't matter, I guess. He'll do what he needs to do in the end.
Me 53, XH 57 M 20 (+1.5) years, no kids BD June '13 H moved out July '13 Confirmed long-suspected PA Feb '14 H filed for D Nov. '14 D March '15