Originally Posted By: Upwards
Why are you tolerating her keep rubbing her affair in your face?! Some of the info you've said she shares with you must hurt so badly and seems so disrespectful towards you? Do you really want to listen to it?!


I asked her to please stop talking about him or mentioning anything they did together.

She apologized and said she will stop. She does want to spend time with me, go to dinner the gym etc.

As long as it's about us or our son and no OM no relationship talk, is it doable.

I am still reading DR. I am reading that at the same time as Boundaries so,I am only about half done.

There is still a chance of me winning her back. I see that she one argument one idiot move by her OM and she will end it.but who knows The truth only she does.

I am trying so hard to become the man she would never want to leave, I just wonder if thirty-two years of baggage is just to to much...


W 53 H 51, S 16, S 21
33 years M 28
DD 3 Feb 11, 2014
S21 and His Fiancée move in with us 8/14
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