"...that were totally unneccesary and completely out of character."
You're still not getting it. It was necessary TO HER. She felt that she had to do what she did for whatever reason. It's not up to you to decide what she should or needs to do.
"Such as her completely distancing herself from our boys and messing around with married guys and many things I haven't even mentioned."
Did you read what I wrote earlier? It explains why she may have had the need to do that. You're choosing not to listen to that.
"I am just saying that none of it explains her erratic behaviour,"
Yes it does.
"especially regarding our sons,they are blameless so while she might be fully expected to exclude and break from me she should still want to be a mum to them."
Why? That's not for you to decide. Something happened to her that made her want to remove herself from them and you. Only she knows the reason why or maybe she doesn't.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
