Unsure wha else to say thought we were perfect couple with rare spats made up and moved on. She held on to all and kept inside but on night she flipped the switch she stated all the did not love you, neglected me, never helped out with kids or house etc. Most of which not true but could have done more of all. To me girls started preschool she had nothing to spend time on and I was struggling to pay bills so disconnected from her to keep burden from her. Big mistake...made her vulnerable and sons baseball coach started giving her attention claimed his wife cheated on him and was bringing his kids to practice she started helping out and emotional affair began then physical in nov 13 I suspected and confronted from start but was never given a chance to correct our marital flaws. Have held true and showed love for her throughout but not pursued her as book advised. Lost 50 lbs since October and working out. But with 5 kids not much time. Latest news is she filed for divorce so out of time to snap her out of it almost. The person of the last six moths is nothing of my wife..no family or friends just the OM and addictive affair and mean hateful things !!
