Crimson......still just checkin' in.

[25yearsmlc]

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^^^ I know it was what you wished for...and I'm sorry it has not happened yet but she's not ready yet. And...you are

1) mind reading all over the place here, big time; and 2) she may not have admitted that she sees the changes, (we KNOW she has seen them) but she chooses to believe they are not real, or lasting, PERHAPS. The only solution for that is time. Time will reveal the truth about you.

I think it's harder for her to let go of resentments & that's not a great trait to admit having. Honest reflection about HER choices, is also way too hard for her at this time. So she'll have to convince herself of your flaws. And then continue to do so....and In the face of goodness at your end, that task will become increasingly difficult.

IF the OM is half self aware and a basically decent guy, which I'll assume for the sake of this discussion, then he will notice the contrast between her description of you, and the real you.

When he sees that you lack the fangs of satan or whomever she makes you out to be, he'll see HER differently...