She left - 3

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I also invited her to the little egg hunt I am going to do for the kids at the house on Sunday morning. I did this before the talk and she accepted.

She offered the kids the whole day or at least through dinner because she said that her family was not doing anything. Her brother and SIL are fighting with her parents and the W and I are in our sitch, so her parents called off their dinner and said they are going fishing instead.

I mentioned it above, but I am not sure if I should extend an invitation to join my family or not. I would enjoy her there, but that is because I still love her. I do not know how the rest of the family would take it. I know they would be happy, but there would still be an awkwardness about it.

The only people she has saw since BD are my aunt, they work at the same place, and my mom who she saw at the grocery store last weekend.

I think it would feel quite pushy or forced for her to be there but I do know she misses my family.

I also do not feel it is my responsibility to help her with seeing or visiting with my family. If we were both active and working towards us I would be open to it, but right now it feels awkward.

Does a WAW flat out say they are ready to work on the R or do I need to show her what it would be like before she says she is ready?