AJ, I haven't read any "hollow" encouragement on my thread or anyone else's. Are you speaking about your own capabilities?
There seems to be a lack of self reflection on your part. Maybe you are unaware, but you spend a lot of time pointing out how evolved you believe you are. Many of us here are able to experience joy while dealing with very difficult circumstances. I have a great life, but I have very challenging moments just as I did when I was still married. That's normal. I don't come here to boast about how wonderful my life is. Rather, I enjoy living it. I do have days when I'm dealing with legal junk and hurtful behavior. I like to post about those times since most people here can relate.
It's up to you whether you continue to post on my thread or not. However, be aware that there are a lot of women here, and I am not one of them, who are very vulnerable, having recently been left or badly hurt by their H's. Reading feedback from a man's perspective is important to them. Don't abuse that by using that as a way to show how wonderful you've become. It seems to me that you still need that recognition from your xw. Don't let your ego get in the way of real growth.
