Well W finally changed her relationship staus on fb to something other than M. I changed mine too. It seems that changes are moving faster now. Although they don't hurt per se, i notice them. Its like watching a movie of my life sometimes. I also see thst she's getting confirmations of changing address on some of her things. This is all part of the process.
me: 47, W:49 M 16.5 years T 17 years Three kids - D17,D14, S13 Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13 Bomb drop 11/29/13 W moved out 12/5/13 I Retained L 2/20/14 D filed 3/17/14