From what I understood/understand and from how Bond reports it...is that it doesn't matter what I WANT, when dealing with MLC.... so, this is a challenged position. This is about what HE wants. I am respecting that too.
For me...
I get what you are saying... and maybe with time... once he is through his MLC, I could make such a stand... if I still felt that way about our relationship.
M:46 H:49 T:20yrs myD:22 H distant summer/12 H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12 BD: Dec 2/12 asked me begin to move end of Jan/13 moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff) "agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)