To add for Starsky.... I would not accept a marriage proposal right now anyway... HE needs to make some changes.... I need to see if who he is (the new him), is who I really want to be with.

I need to see who he is now... or who he may have always been and ignored for my benefit.... This will take time.

I can see what you suggest that a proposal could be my starting point, if I were sure that he is who I WANT..... does this make sense?

its like I am interviewing him, at the moment.

M:46 H:49 T:20yrs
myD:22
H distant summer/12
H sleeping in b'ment: Nov/12
BD: Dec 2/12
asked me begin to move end of Jan/13
moved Jan 7/13 (left my stuff)
"agreed" to "working on r" Mar 3/13(lipservice!)