Xbf's position since DAY 1 has been that he does not commit because he believes that a paper forces people to stay together. His idea of commitment is that he was in our relationship, because he "wanted" to be there not that he was forced. I understood and accepted his point... even believing it. . . .
One thing I know for sure... he wants me in his life...forever. Who knows with what label. This is not acceptable to me, right now as It does keep me on the hook.
I am totally confused, MM. I thought your new boundary was that you wanted a marriage commitment from him? Now you're right back to talking about dating again, and having sex?
