[LoisB]

Anyone knows any examples like that? When a person wants to disappear from the world (obviously he cannot, because he still has to work)? Well, except from his drinking buddies and fun.

Bright, I think that describes just about every MLC spouse on here. Mine showed up with an Amish-looking beard a week ago. I guess I could analyze it, but what's the point? He's cuckoo right now and he prob thinks he looks amazing. I, on the other hand, almost told him how stupid he looked.

Anyway, Bright, what's holding you back from really letting him go? I still hear you focused on the minuscule craziness of HIS life. Who knows why they do what they do??? It's a mystery, otherwise we'd have the magic pill and no reason for the boards. He's finding his way in a very strange, but, apparently, necessary way for HIM.

How about you? What's your way look like?

You know, you can still love him and hope he comes back to reality someday. It's ok to honor your relationship and hope for the best. But, for RIGHT NOW, what are you going to do for you?

One thing, tell those "helpful" friends of yours to keep their lips shut when it comes to your H. They aren't doing you any favors. If I was getting updates on Smokey, I'm sure I would be in a straightjacket by now. They are doing hurtful, horrible things and we don't need updates. Shut it down Bright. YOU CAN DO THIS!!!!

There's a wonderful life waiting. Promise.

Lots of Love,

Heather