You said what was on your mind yesterday, so let it go. Like a teenager, he heard you and it went in one ear and now out the other. He knows what he's doing is wrong and yet, it has to continue on his journey.
The one thing you need to stop is telling him that he is in the infatuation stage w/the ow. The ow is nothing more than a Band-Aid and you've got to stop bringing her up. You are putting too much focus on her and she's not renting space in your head. You've got more important things to think about like your children and what you need to do to stay sane.
No, it's not fair that he's out and about and enjoying life, but there's nothing you can do about it. The more you complain or point out the things he's not doing, the more determined he is going to be to do what he wants.
Put your focus on your children, your child's birthday and Easter. What do you have planned for the weekend? Are you and the children going to visit family?
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
