H no longer lets me know that he is going to be late coming home. He used to let me know he was going to OW house (his BFF - whatever) I just let it ride, as I would feel silly calling or texting "where are you?" I wonder why he stopped informing. H is trying to be sneaker and lying about all things now. Honestly the lies are getting to be more transparent. LOL
At this minute I feel like filing, but like him I change my mind on this every minute. There are too many unknowns right now to file. I also do not want to hurt my kids - as he will play victim with his friends and my kids.
I have to say that I am very worried about H. He is not close to his family, and really became part of my family. His only friend has been ignoring him lately. His 3 new friends are acquired since his MLC last few months - one of them is OW. These 3 friends are trailer trash. My H has history of depression. Here is what I am worried about that his OW (who is ring leader of friends) if she breaks up with him - he will have nothing. I have been warned about his mental unstablity. So I worry suicide or he could harm me and kids. I may be worrying about nothing - but it does make it uneasy.
