TL, you wrote: "I'm always thinking about it. It is totally the hardest thing ever to accept. I can only hope to think about it less and less as time goes forward. tld - mine is stubborn too and I think he will never come back. Even if he comes out of this in a few years, he's so stubborn that way he will never admit anything was ever wrong or want to come back so I really feel like I have to let it go and IF it ever happens I can think about it then.There's always this sliver of hope in me though."
Gosh, I think you read my mind and typed it out. Crazy how we all seem to go through and experience a lot of the same feelings and reactions. Kind of makes you feel like you ARE normal! Especially the reference to the sliver of hope. I keep wondering why I still hang on to that - does it or will it ever go away?
Sounds like your divorce group was very helpful. I really need to try that. Again, thanks for the book reference. I'm looking forward to reading it. I need something here...Thanks TL.I wish I had something to offer you.
Me 59 H47 M12 T22 No kids BD&S Apr 2,2013 - ILYBINILWY Filed 2/12/14 OW 11/13 The Universe always strikes you at your weakest point because that’s what most needs strengthening." – Joseph Campbell
