Her mood hasn't changed at all Sandi she seems to feel exactly the same but my counsellor has agreed to see her on her own for a few weeks at her request. she did say something at the end of our session which was interesting. When we were both asked about how we felt I said my bit and then she said the following. 'I am neither happier or less happy since we split. Sometimes I sit in my apartment alone and think, this is s..t, other times I am calm and serene. But my head is all over the place and I dont know what I'm thinking sometimes' so at least its clear she is not herself, she was normally a very determined, organised and self disciplined girl who knew exactly what she was doing. I don't know whether that girl wil ever return. We are still doing something over easter but I am using it as a last trip for us as a family. After that I am going full LRT, its the only thing left for me.
